After 25 years of marriage, you would think Jermaine and I would know exactly what the other person is thinking by now. We don't.  But sometimes we act like we do. "He ignored me." "She doesn't care." "He should know why I'm upset." "She always does this." And before we've actually had a conversation, we've created an entire story in our heads about what the other person meant, why they did it, and sometimes even what they'll do next. One of the biggest lessons we've learned about...

Marriage Isn't Built in the Big Moments August 9, 2026 This month, Jermaine and I celebrate 25 years of marriage. Twenty-five. Even writing that feels a little surreal. When we got married, I’m sure we had an idea of what our life together would look like. We would build a family. Create a home. Raise our children. Build careers. Grow old together.  And somewhere in that young version of marriage, I think we assumed that if two people really loved each other, everything...